I recently saw a post on top notch escorts about a man who has created an application for his girlfriend. Every time she feels like she needs attention, she has to press a button and his phone beeps.
The number of comments for that post was enormous. Most of the comments were women/girls who talked about how they wish their boyfriends understood how girls need attention and lots of it.
So, it’s not just one or two, but most women need their men’s attention. This is not necessarily a negative thing, even women who are independent and confident with lots of self-love still feel nice when their man pays attention to them. While too much of attention-seeking is definitely bad and should not be encouraged at all, a little bit is healthy.
And when you’ve been in a relationship for a while, sometimes, men just stop paying attention! So how do you get him to do it again? Well, here’s how.
1. Dress To Impress
Experimenting with different looks and changing the way you look is a sure shot way to get your guy to notice you. Whether it’s a haircut or your outfits, don’t shy away from experimenting once in a while. Be Bold!
2. Practice Minimalism
No no, we’re not talking about minimal clothing here. (Well, that could work too!). But don’t rant about your everyday activities down to the smallest level of detail. Just tell him vaguely and you’ll find him asking more questions. This way, you have his full attention and can actually get him interested about what you’ve got to share.
3. Acts of Intimacy
Find out your man’s love language and speak it. If he likes it when you play with his hair, then do it for a while and stop. There’s no use in tracing his cheeks if he likes it when you play with his ears. So, find out what he enjoys, do it, stop and wait till he puts down his phone and turns to you.
4. Be Independent
If you’ve got your life sorted out and can go about doing things on your own, your guy will probably want to be around more. Men have the natural instinct to be their woman’s hero and he will definitely want to get involved more once he feels that this area is lacking.
5. Smell Incredible
Wear a sexy perfume and smell nice all day. Don’t be afraid to experiment with strong scents and bold make-up. How many times have you noticed your partner when they smell like a snack? Well, it works both ways too!
No matter what you do, make sure you never indulge in damaging behaviour like flirting with other men to get your guy notice you. Though this could definitely work and help you get immediate attention, it’s bad in the long run. Play within your safe zone, but play hard!